kamala The biggest lie we have told ourselves as a society is that we’re always supposed to be happy. That happiness is the goal. That if you don’t feel happy you need to fix that, pronto. But the thing is – happiness, like every other emotion, is temporary. I’m not referring to gratitude or appreciation of … Read moreHappiness is not the goal
Trick 1 – rewrite your thoughts This is deeply sad, so trigger warning, but it’s an important premise for the topic: I spent the majority of my life wholeheartedly believing that no one loves me or cares about me. This is because of emotional abuse as a child (from a friend, not from my family), … Read moremental health tricks for rewiring your brain
Me to my middle schooler as I’m picking her up from camp: Bb I really need you to be my little helper today. Can you please help me for the rest of the day? My kid: Mehhhhhh *droops* Me (immediately resorting to bribery here): Ok what if I get you a treat for helping? A … Read morehustled by a lil boss lady today
You guys. I am *so cooked* I am freshly single. There are way too many Israeli guys in LA, and they are way too hot, and they are freakin crazy – which means they’re also hella fun, and I am so, so, so cooked fam. I’m too impulsive for this, nobody better give me rosé, … Read moreIsraeli men ruin me
Hi folks, This is a message to divorced ladies: Hey, I don’t want your shitty ex husbands either. Your exes are all over the apps trying *everything* to get laid, and they are complaining about you in the process. You this, you that and ofc they are always the victim. Of course you’re always “crazy”, … Read moreattn: divorced girlies
Listen to me when I say this: the way people act is not about you. It is always about them. Living by this rule is one of the core tenets of good mental health: It’s not you, it’s them. Since we are all the main character of our own lives, we tend to internalize people’s … Read moreIt’s not you, it’s them.
lonely like the night is dark. lonely like its all my fault. I’m a bottomless pit when it comes to love. I’ll never be fit when it comes to love. lonely like 3 spikes through my heart. lonely with no end and no start I’m repeating my days when it comes to love I’m a … Read moreforever alone
I need to feel like I belong am beloved and beholden I need to feel like I’m embraced and cherished and golden A princess, a queen, a top priority all the things daddy never did for me make me important in your world this pathetic neglected girl desperate for a taste of love a taste … Read moreneed
every night I lose you more my fight or flight keeps showing you the door my shattered heart bleeding out on the floor I want to cling to you, I feel so needy is there anything to cling to? no way to make it even? you were already gone before I knew you were leaving … Read morelose you more
I’m a wilted flower petals drooping low with a scent thats gone sour and nowhere else to grow I’m a crumbled tower jumbled on the floor I’m the wind that lost her power and doesn’t blow anymore I’m a queen without a crown a throne or a gown I’m a forgotten memory an abandoned town … Read moreBurn out